Aging in Place at Home: Planning the Whole House, Not Just the Bathroom

Most people start thinking about aging in place because of a bathroom. A step into the tub that has gotten harder, or a shower that suddenly feels like a risk. That is a fair place to start, but it is not the whole house, and the bathroom is rarely the only room that will need to change.

If you are planning to stay in your home in Manitowoc County for the long run, or you are getting a house ready for a parent moving in, it is worth walking the whole place once with fresh eyes. Here is how we do it.

Start at the driveway, not the bathroom

The first real obstacle in most houses is getting in the door. A couple of steps up to the entry, a threshold you have to lift a foot over, a storm door that swings the wrong way and has to be fought with while you are holding groceries.

A no-step entry somewhere on the house, a covered landing big enough to set things down on, and a door wide enough to get through with a walker are worth more day to day than almost anything you could do inside. They also help everyone else in the family, which is the thing people notice once it is done.

Get everything you need onto one floor

This is the decision that determines whether the rest of it works. A house where the bedroom is upstairs and the only full bathroom is up there with it will eventually stop working, no matter how nice that bathroom is.

So the question becomes whether there is a way to get a bedroom, a full bath and laundry onto the main floor. Sometimes there is space already and it is a matter of reworking it. Sometimes it means borrowing from a dining room nobody uses, or finishing a section of the main floor differently. Sometimes it is a small addition, which is often less disruptive than people expect.

Main-floor laundry is the one people skip and then wish they had not. Carrying a full basket down a set of basement stairs is exactly the kind of everyday trip that gets harder to do safely.

Widen the path through the house

Walk from the front door to the bedroom and pay attention to where you have to turn sideways. Hallways, doorways and the corner where two of them meet are where mobility problems actually show up.

Doorways can often be widened without touching structure. Sometimes swapping a standard hinge for an offset one buys you the couple of inches you need for almost nothing. Where a wall has to move, it is much easier to find that out during planning than during framing.

Then, yes, the bathroom

The bathroom is still the room where the most changes happen, and it deserves the attention.

A curbless shower you can walk or roll into. Blocking in the walls so grab bars can go anywhere they turn out to be needed, rather than only where a stud happens to be. A comfort-height toilet with room beside it. A floor that is not slick when it is wet. A vanity you can get close to. We went into more detail in our piece on what actually changes in an accessible bathroom remodel.

The blocking is the part to do even if you are not ready for the rest. It is cheap while the walls are open and expensive afterward.

Light it better than you think you need to

Eyesight changes gradually enough that most people do not notice how dim their house has gotten. Lighting is the least expensive item on this whole list and one of the most useful.

More light at the stairs, at the entry, in the closets and under the kitchen cabinets. Switches at both ends of a hallway so nobody crosses a dark room to reach one. Rocker switches instead of toggles. Night lighting on the path from the bedroom to the bathroom. None of that is a remodel. Most of it happens while other work is going on anyway.

Make the kitchen easier to use standing or sitting

Kitchens get overlooked in these conversations, and they should not. Most of the changes that make a kitchen work for someone with limited reach or balance are the same changes that make it nicer for everybody.

Drawers instead of deep base cabinets, so nothing lives on the floor at the back of a box. A counter run at a second height. Lever handles. Pull-out shelving. An open spot where someone can sit and still be part of what is happening. Our kitchen remodeling page shows how that gets planned.

Why the credential matters here

Brandon Bartow is a Certified Aging-in-Place Specialist (CAPS) through the National Association of Home Builders. That is a real designation with real training behind it, and it changes how the planning conversation goes.

The difference in practice is that the starting point is not a product list. It is how you actually move through your house on a normal day, where you already avoid things, and what is likely to change in the next ten years. The room gets designed around that. There is more on our aging in place and accessible remodeling page.

You do not have to do it all at once

This is the part worth hearing. Almost nobody does this as one project.

What is worth doing is planning it as one project, then taking it in stages. That way the bathroom you do this year does not have to be undone when the entry gets addressed in three years, and the wall you open for one thing gets the blocking and the wiring for the next thing while it is already open. Doing it in that order is what keeps you from paying to open the same wall twice.

Questions homeowners ask

Is this only for older homeowners? No. A lot of this work is for families getting a house ready for a parent, or for someone recovering from surgery or an injury. The planning is the same.

Will it make the house look like a hospital? It should not, and it does not have to. A curbless shower, wide doorways and good lighting read as a well-designed house, not a medical one. That is the point of designing it rather than bolting hardware onto what is there.

Where should we start if we can only do one thing? Usually the main-floor bathroom, or the entry if getting in the door is already difficult. Which one depends on your house, and it is worth walking it with someone before you decide.

Can you do this in an older Manitowoc home? Yes. Older homes here often have narrow doorways and tight bathrooms, and a lot of it is workable once someone has looked at the framing.

Let’s walk your house

If you are thinking a few years ahead, or a change at home has made this urgent, the useful first step is having someone walk the house with you. Bartow Builders has been building and remodeling in Manitowoc County since 1999. Tell us what you are planning for.